Your First High Holidays

“Your First High Holidays” by Rachel Adlerstone provides an orientation for individuals new to the High Holy Days, offering guidance on what to anticipate from Rosh Hashanah through Yom Kippur. The book addresses the experience of joining an ongoing tradition, explaining various aspects without presuming prior Jewish knowledge. It covers calendars, ticket information, seating arrangements, prayer books, ritual actions like standing and shofar calls, greetings, food customs, and the practice of fasting. Key observances such as Kol Nidre, communal confession, Yizkor, and Neilah are also clarified. The author's approach aims to reduce uncertainty for newcomers.

Readers will find service maps that highlight major components of the High Holiday liturgy, alongside a note that timings and specific prayers can differ. Hebrew terms are presented with phonetic guidance and sufficient context for recognition. Practical advice is included on topics such as appropriate attire, transportation, children's considerations, accessibility, and managing health needs. The book also offers respectful ways to pose questions to a synagogue beforehand. It differentiates between observing and actively participating, providing insights for guests, those undergoing conversion, returning Jews, college students, and interfaith family members. The text avoids advocating for fasting against medical advice or improvising religious practices. A final section allows for recording local details, leaving space for the depth and unexpected elements of the season.